We drive by his home, his grandparent's home, the neighborhood park, the favorite family restaurant (now under a different name) and Hornbacher's grocery store where he and his buddy would bike to get their famous peanut butter rolls. We also drive by places that no longer exist; the municipal pool his grandfather built is now an asphalt playground.
As important as these places are to him, only the family homes show up in any of his photo albums. Just as today we don't take photos of going through McDonald's drive-through or shopping at Target, people didn't take photos of their everyday haunts back then either. Only time and change has made those places significant to us.
People come to the Edina History Museum to find photos of those everyday places from their past. High school reunion groups want pictures of the places they hung out Friday after football games. Grown-ups want to see pictures of dirt roads they biked as children. Everyone wants to show their kids how indescribably full Carlson's Odd Shop was.
We have thousands of photos, but not every Edina place and time period is in our collection. Because we connected with the owner's daughter, we do have photos of the interior of Carlson's Odd Shop - but we don't have any of Joyce's Bakery next door.
Even with small camera phones, people simply don't take photos in stores and restaurants, unless they're on vacation. If you are that rare person who did take photos of your hometown haunts, I'd love to talk with you!
My kids and I are going to drive through town this summer and take photos of their significant landmarks and everyday activities. Who knows? Someday, they'll take their kids on a road trip and find their house torn down or remodeled beyond recognition. Perkin's will be a vegan restaurant, and their school turned into condominiums. As author Annie Dillard wrote, "How we live our days is how we live our lives." Although we take photos of special occasions, our life history is defined by those everyday moments.